밥 먹었어요?
bap meo-geo-sseo-yo · literally “Did you eat (rice)?”
Situation: A Korean coworker passes you in the hallway around lunchtime and asks '밥 먹었어요?'
✕ What AI tells you
Translates it as 'Did you eat?' and suggests a detailed answer, or explains it as an invitation to eat together.
Why it fails: Most of the time it's a casual check-in, close to 'How's it going?' The speaker usually isn't asking about your menu and isn't necessarily inviting you.
✓ What Koreans actually say
Answer briefly and bounce the question back. Treat it as an invitation only if a time or place follows.
네, 먹었어요. 식사하셨어요?
ne, meo-geo-sseo-yo. sik-sa-ha-syeo-sseo-yo
Short answer + the polite version back (식사하다 is the respectful 'eat')
아직요. 이따 먹으려고요.
a-jik-yo. i-tta meo-geu-ryeo-go-yo
Haven't eaten yet — still a complete, natural reply
점심 맛있게 드셨어요?
jeom-sim ma-sit-ge deu-syeo-sseo-yo
Your own after-lunch greeting to a senior colleague
Cultural nuance, in depth
Asking whether someone has eaten is a way of showing care, and it fits the Korean habit of greeting through situation rather than with a fixed phrase ('Going home?', 'Did you eat?', 'You came early!'). When you ask a superior, switch the verb to 식사하셨어요? or 드셨어요? — 밥 먹었어요? is fine for peers but too plain for elders.
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