아름다워요
a-reum-da-wo-yo · literally “(You're) beautiful”
Situation: Complimenting a coworker's outfit: 'You look beautiful today!'
✕ What AI tells you
Translates 'beautiful' as 아름다워요: 오늘 정말 아름다워요.
Why it fails: 아름답다 sounds literary — it's for scenery, art, music or a moving act, and sounds like poetry when said about someone's outfit at the office. For everyday compliments Koreans say 예쁘다.
✓ What Koreans actually say
예쁘다: everyday 'pretty' for people, clothes and things. 귀엽다: cute — for children, pets, friends, partners, never for superiors. 아름답다: scenery, art, music, deeds; formal or written. 곱다: gentle, refined beauty — a classic compliment for older women, hanbok, colors, a kind heart.
오늘 옷 정말 예뻐요.
o-neul ot jeong-mal ye-ppeo-yo
Everyday compliment on someone's outfit
어머님, 한복이 참 고우세요.
eo-meo-nim, han-bo-gi cham go-u-se-yo
Complimenting an older woman — 곱다 suits elders far better than 예쁘다 or 귀엽다
경치가 정말 아름답네요.
gyeong-chi-ga jeong-mal a-reum-dam-ne-yo
Scenery, a view, a performance
Cultural nuance, in depth
Each word carries its own picture. 예쁘다 is bright, everyday prettiness and is the safe default. 귀엽다 adds affection and smallness; it's lovely for a friend, a partner or a child, but calling your boss or an elder 귀여워요 sounds like you're looking down on them. 아름답다 is grand and a little formal — 아름다운 경치, 아름다운 음악, 아름다운 마음. 곱다 is soft, graceful beauty: 곱게 나이 드셨어요 is a warm compliment to an older person, and 마음씨가 곱다 means 'kind-hearted'. AI tools often reach for 아름답다 because it's the dictionary match for 'beautiful'.
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